Should I Feel Guilty?

     Usually when I ask myself if I should feel guilty about something, the answer turns out to be yes. Either I did something that I shouldn't have, and I am asking myself after the fact (because I'm an idiot). Or, I am trying to give myself permission to do something I know I shouldn't, and trying to justify it before I do it anyway.
     With that in mind, here are some things that cause me to ask: "Should I feel guilty?"

• see my post about Chris Dracopoulos birthday 
• The trip downstate seems to take sooooo long (three and a half hours +/- isn't that long) I think the reason is that I look forward to the smooch that I get as a greeting. (*see also 'I just can't wrap my head around' post from 04/06) 
• I'm nearly 50 and happily married. However; I am not dead. I still notice women, many in their 20's/half my age. I don't do anything, but I notice. Should I feel guilty for my wandering eyes, and/or the age difference?
• expect other stuff to be posted here as I think of them - or do stupid stiuff